By Patsy Terrell on February 17, 2017

Memories in the Making

Time in the kitchen creates positive memories

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Some meals leave an impression on us. It may be because of the food, the company or the circumstances. 

I still fondly remember the family dinners of my childhood. The family stories were passed along with the mashed potatoes. There was laughter and conversation and a sense that this was just one moment in a string of family gatherings that would stretch into infinity. Of course, that was not to be – at least not with that cast of characters.  

We won't get to have Mama's coconut pie or Mrs. Cooper's coconut cake again. We might have the recipes, but we all know we never have things just right to bring back those particular tastes. Or maybe it's the feelings that are missing. 

Some meals are special because of the food itself. The first time I tasted fresh mozzarella was in San Francisco. I can put myself back in that restaurant with my friend, Teresa, and feel the creaminess of the cheese contrasted with the crunch of the fresh basil. It's as vivid as if it were yesterday. 

 At other times, it's a combination. I was recently invited to a dinner cooked by Chef Renee Kelly. You might recognize her name - she was one of the contestants on Bravo Network's Top Chef. The circumstances of the dinner were amazing and the food was out of this world. The dessert she served that night was a rosewater pavlova with a pear and cranberry chutney in a hibiscus sauce topped with pistachio-flavored cream. Have you ever imagined those things in combination? I had not, but it was just as delicious as it sounds.  

I'm one of those people who will whip out my phone for a photo of the food if it's unusual and that was no exception. I was dining that night with people far more sophisticated than me, but eventually mine was not the only phone being used to capture the moment. I'm guessing there are a few dozen photos of that dessert now in existence. 

Although it’s not exotic, I’m delighted to be sharing a recipe associated with many happy memories for me.

Click below for Patsy's coconut pie and meringue recipes.

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    Patsy Terrell

    Cook's Library with Patsy is about food and food for thought. See more at cookslibrarywithpatsy.com. Her legacy lives on with her writing and we appreciate her contribution to Kansas Living magazine.